How Quickly the Tides Turn: When Relationships Suffer an About-Face

A Phone Tree Bible Study Group ACTion Article


Reading Assignment: 1 Samuel 18:20-19:18 and 2 Samuel 6:16-23

Personal Reflection ACTion Statement:

There are special moments in our lives when we are blessed and fortunate enough to enter into meaningful relationships with other people. It is during those times, when all is well, that we can confidently place our trust in, give our loyalty to, and/or commit our hearts to those we deem as significant. However, sometimes, when life happens, the once upon a time story of harmony and unity no longer exists and the tumultuous waves of discontent negatively impact those once stable relationships, creating havoc, chaos, disorder, and disconnect. Feelings and emotions may soon sour, causing the love that once was to vanish.

When relationships unexpectedly change course (for whatever reason), we should consider the reason, the lesson, and the heart of the matter. Furthermore, we should pray to GOD, asking Him for discernment, understanding, and guidance.


Bible Study Questions to Consider:

1) When is Michal initially introduced in 1 Samuel, and what is made known about her heart towards David?

2) What are Scriptural evidences of Michal’s attempts to aid David?

3) Is Michal ever confronted about her actions to help David? If so, by whom and what was said?

4) What is the difference between Michal’s presentation in 1 Samuel versus 2 Samuel?

5) What ultimately happened to Michal and David’s relationship, according to the Bible?

6) What were David’s final words to Michal?

7) What was the difference between Michal’s heart response/words and David’s heart response/words?


Meditative Scripture:


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