The Vicious Cycle of Projecting, Blaming, & Making Excuses

A Phone Tree Bible Study Group ACTion Article


Reading Assignment: 1 Samuel 13:6-12 (emphasis on verses 11B-12); 15:1-15, 20-21 (emphasis on verses 15, 20-21)

Personal Reflection ACTion Statement:

The failure to take responsibility for one’s own actions is an unfortunate indicator of immaturity. It largely stems from a place of pride and insecurity. It demonstrates a lack of transparency with self. It is used as a means to avoid accountability. It is also used as an avenue to protect self, even at the expense of others. Ultimately, the repeated acts of projecting, blame shifting, and making excuses reveal the state of the heart.


Bible Study Questions to Consider:

1) What was Saul’s typical pattern of response when he was confronted about his committed sin?

2) In the cited Bible verses above, what wrong did Saul commit against God?

3) Did Saul take responsibility for his actions? Explain.

4) In looking back at the preceding chapters, what have you learned about Saul’s character, integrity, and fear reactions versus faith responses?

5) Was Saul’s heart for/with God or against God?

6) What does it mean to be disobedient to God, and what does it mean to be obedient to God?

7) What can be rightly deduced from all the words of Samuel in 1 Samuel 15?


Quote of Reflection:

“People who blame others for their failures never overcome them. They simply move from problem to problem. To reach your potential, you must continually improve yourself, and you can’t do that if you don’t take responsibility for your actions and learn from your mistakes.” | John C. Maxwell


Bonus Content: Article of Interest

Deflection as a Defense Mechanism


Question: Was Saul a master at gaslighting?

Special Self Examination Challenge:

Have you, at any season of life, been a gaslighter? If so, how has this affected your spiritual integrity?


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